External forces involved in PSquare feud- Do2dtun

Media personality Do2dtun has shared his thoughts on the PSquare twins’ fallout with emphasis on the complexity of family conflicts and external influences.

He noted that fear of disappointing others can prolong issues and that fighting involves not just the individuals but also external forces, especially family.

Do2dtun highlighted that a fight can’t be resolved if one party lacks a mind of their own and that love shouldn’t be conditional.

He encouraged acceptance of people’s mistakes and decisions, rather than judging them for it.

“Sometimes the reason why issues never get solved is because of the fear of disappointing the people who bought your fight when you were upset or grieving. Fighting is not just the two people but the external forces involved. Especially if the external force is the family.

“A fight that can never be resolved is a fight you can’t make up your mind to fix, damn the consequences and cut away the people that contributed to it. The reason why a fight lasts longer is most times, one party doesn’t have a mind of their own.

“You can love and wish two people to be together, but you also have to love them with the same energy when don’t want to be together or when they make mistakes. Love is not conditional.

“You can’t comfort the afflicted without afflicting the comfortable.

“No family is what it seems from the outside. Yours is not perfect either, but we feel we need accountability when it’s people we love, but at the end, why don’t we love them for what they created, not mistakes or decisions they made?”.